Help Your Child Conquer a Fear of Monsters | Popular Christmas
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All mothers and fathers obviously know there are no such things as fantastic monsters hanging out under the bed or dwelling in the closet, there is no amount of begging or conversation that can convince a scared child that scary creatures do not exist. While a fear of mythical creatures may seem insignificant to grown ups, it can bring real tension for a young child and interrupt his or her rest and well-being during the school day. Amid the many sleeping difficulties children and mothers and fathers work through together at night is an irrational fear of imaginary monsters.
Young children between the ages of 4 to 6 are attentive enough to know there are things in the world that are distressing, but their ability to discern which are completely real and which are fabricated has not yet completely evolved. There are 2 schools of thought when it comes to working with children and their fearfulness of imaginary creatures. One philosophy states that moms and dads should never give in to a son’s or daughter’s illusion and should instead work to assure the child that monsters do not exist. While this strategy may work for older children who have some experience with intellectual reasoning, it will be much more problematic for younger kids to understand.
Believing in imaginary creatures and animals is an essential part of play and most children enjoy employing their creativity in this way. If you belittle your little one’s worries then you are in essence saying their feelings do not matter. Continuously telling a kid that his or her concerns are unfounded can really undermine your child’s self-confidence.
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Dec 05 2011


